Two brides, two grooms, or one of each.       Dan can help you create a ceremony that reflects what is most meaningful to you as a couple.      Photo: www.whitesharkphoto.com

    Two brides, two grooms, or one of each. 
     Dan can help you create a ceremony that reflects what is most meaningful to you as a couple.

    Photo: www.whitesharkphoto.com

Your wedding can be:

  • Joyful—celebrating a landmark of your love

  • Memorable—reflecting you as a unique couple

  • Inclusive—joining your friends & families

Do you want:

  • An occasion that’s uniquely yours – not scripted or formulaic? 

  • A ritual involving practices from diverse traditions?

  • A ceremony that is secular, or perhaps spiritual but outside mainstream religious tradition?

  • To bridge faiths or cultural traditions in a way that is respectful, yet  authentically your own?

Let's make it happen!

Contact Dan to explore the possibilities.
There's no cost or obligation

 

Let's make your wedding one to remember!

You’ve chosen each other as life partners.
How will you choose to express your love?

Your wedding can be:

  • Casual or formal—embrace tradition or do it your way.

  • Secular or religious—what’s authentic for you?

  • Simple or elaborate—what rituals, readings and music to include?

We’ll meet to discuss the style, tone and setting for your ceremony.

I can share an array of wedding scripts, each created with the couple to reflect who they uniquely are.

We’ll work with your wedding planner, venue, photographer and musicians to make sure everything comes off smoothly. Except for the simplest of ceremonies, a focused rehearsal is a must.

 Jennifer Van Elk Photography    Venue: Highland Country Club, Indianapolis

Jennifer Van Elk Photography   
Venue: Highland Country Club, Indianapolis

We were very happy to have Dan officiate our wedding. We wanted a nondenominational, laidback ceremony. Dan’s experience and relaxed presence made this possible. Our ceremony felt like us. We would recommend anyone to work with Dan on their special day.

— Ben and Zoe
         "If the ring fits, you must commit!"      Venue: Unitarian Universalist Church of Indianapolis

        "If the ring fits, you must commit!"      Venue: Unitarian Universalist Church of Indianapolis

Dan officiated our wedding with joy, respect and a good sense of presence and direction. His perpetual smile made everything a joy! I was able to write, with his suggestions, our own service and then he performed it beautifully! We had a wonderful service filled with joy, laughter and solemnity to create the perfect wedding ceremony. Would we recommend Dan to perform your special day? Absolutely!!
— Kathy and Don
We were so thankful to have both Dan and Beth at our wedding. Dan took the time to make sure our ceremony was exactly how we envisioned and he had ideas every step of the way to help guide us. Where Dan really shined is the day of the wedding where he kept everyone calm and organized. Dan and Beth are such an amazing resource for ceremony planning. Their passion and excitement was genuine and touching.
— Emma and Alex
 Photo: Riley Paulsen         Venue: Grove Haus, Indianapolis

Photo: Riley Paulsen         Venue: Grove Haus, Indianapolis

        Photo: www.whitesharkphoto.com

       Photo: www.whitesharkphoto.com

Out of all of the stressful choices we made leading up to our big day, working with Dan and Beth was one of the easiest and best decisions we could have made. We can honestly say, they tailored our ceremony to us in such a beautiful way, that not only was the ceremony perfect for us—it completely transformed the hearts of those in attendance who were still on the fence about same-sex marriage. Thank you, Dan and Beth!!
— Julia and Allison
Dan’s professionalism combined with his warm nature and humor were exactly what we wanted for our wedding service. More than 10 years later, our friends still comment on how beautiful and fun our wedding service was.
— Brook and Corey
    Venue: Sarkine Park, Avon, Indiana

   Venue: Sarkine Park, Avon, Indiana

        Photo: Zach Kowalczyk    Venue: Backyard wedding, Lowell, Indiana

       Photo: Zach Kowalczyk    Venue: Backyard wedding, Lowell, Indiana

At our wedding, Dan not only wrote very moving words for the ceremony and was well prepared, but he was great at leading two brides, 18 attendants, and six musicians through a potentially chaotic rehearsal. It went so smoothly and he made us all feel so confident that on the day of the ceremony, we could relax knowing that we were in good hands.
— Abby and Sarah
From the moment my husband and I met Dan and his wife, Beth, we knew Dan was the perfect fit for us. He listened and considered everything we had to say about our wishes and dreams for our wedding ceremony. He shared ideas, gave suggestions, and allowed us to be creative.
During the wedding day, Dan was part of the groom’s and groomsmen’s support system as we anxiously waited for the ceremony to begin. He spoke with eloquence and made everyone feel comfortable and excited to be in this moment. Unless you are used to performing in front of an audience, the thought of sharing your love and commitment to someone in front of so many people can seem daunting, but Dan created a smooth ebb and flow that allowed us to be fully enraptured in our moment.
— Jacquie and Tom
 
    Photo: Ryan Breeden    Venue: The Propylaeum, Indianapolis

   Photo: Ryan Breeden    Venue: The Propylaeum, Indianapolis

   Dan accompanies daughter Abby at the Phoenix Art Museum

  Dan accompanies daughter Abby at the Phoenix Art Museum

Dan Henkel is an experienced officiant, host, emcee and musician. (See Dan's YouTube channel.)

He is an award-winning communicator for nonprofit organizations and a longtime advocate for equality, the environment and the arts. Indiana governors have recognized Dan as a Distinguished Hoosier and a Sagamore of the Wabash.

Dan is credentialed to officiate in all 50 states. He enjoys co-officiating with his wife, Beth. It was their great joy to once officiate on their own anniversary.

As a professional guitarist in his 20s, Dan enjoyed playing music for the signature events in people's lives. Now, it's his pleasure to help craft and conduct ceremonies that mark life's milestones.

     Setting, script and style: Let's work together to make them your own!      Photo: Ryan Breeden    Venue: The Propylaeum, Indianapolis

    Setting, script and style: Let's work together to make them your own!

    Photo: Ryan Breeden    Venue: The Propylaeum, Indianapolis

        Advocating equality -- celebrating progress.        Venue: Indiana LGBT Wedding Expo

       Advocating equality -- celebrating progress.
       Venue: Indiana LGBT Wedding Expo

When marriage equality was affirmed, Indiana rejoiced. The celebration continues as couples profess their love – now legally recognized – before friends and family. As an equality activist, PFLAG dad and longtime wedding officiant, I’m here for you.

My first ceremony as an officiant (1995) had two brides. The next had two grooms. Over the years, it's been my privilege – sometimes co-officiating with my wife, Beth – to help loving same-sex and mixed-sex couples unite. To me, each union is unique and personal, and each holds the universal hope for a rich life together.

I'm a member of the Indy Rainbow Chamber and proud to support Indianapolis PFLAG, Indiana Equality,Indianapolis and Bloomington Pride, Indiana Youth Group, Lambda Legal and the Human Rights Coalition.

Let’s discuss the possibilities.

Whether or not I have a role in starting
your life together, please accept my congratulations and best wishes.

I am based in central Indiana and happy
to travel for your ceremony.

Dan Henkel, officiant

Contact Dan

 

 Dan and Beth created their own wedding ceremony in 1981 and enjoy serving as co-officiants.

Dan and Beth created their own wedding ceremony in 1981 and enjoy serving as co-officiants.

            What a moment! Dan signs and submits the documents so your marriage is officially recorded.                Photo: www.whitesharkphoto.com

           What a moment! Dan signs and submits the documents so your marriage is officially recorded.

            Photo: www.whitesharkphoto.com

To begin planning or just ask questions, please start by sending Dan an email

He'll get back with you quickly. (There's no obligation, of course.)